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Fighting for Marriage with Taya Kyle LMP 22


An Interview with Dr. John Townsend LMP 21

Does it seem strange to you that it is healthy to have boundaries in marriage?  This comes as a surprise to many.  Why would I want to have boundaries?  Shouldn't we share everything?  Couples without boundaries run the risk of becoming enmeshed, chaotic, and not knowing who is responsible for what.  

I could not be more excited to share this interview with you.  I have been a huge fan of Dr. John Townsend for a long time.  Often times, the issues I see in the counseling office come down to boundaries- or a lack of.  I have recommended his books to more people than I can count. I have seen so many, including me, go on to find freedom and increased connectedness in relationships from learning how to have healthy boundaries.  

If you were not able to attend the Military Spouse Wellness Summit put on by InDependent.org and sponsored by Armed Forces Insurance, never fear.  I am pleased to offer you 5 of the most outstanding interviews from the Summit, uncut, and including additional questions just for the Lifegiver audience.  

As I take a brief sabbatical, I hope you will enjoy these interviews with fantastic guests like Taya Kyle, Dr. Leslie Parrott and more.  Sit back, grab a cup of coffee, and join me with Dr. John Townsend. 

Books recommended from today's interview:

Boundaries Series:

Boundaries: When to Say Yes, When to Say No-To Take Control of Your Life

Boundaries in Marriage

Boundaries with Kids: When to Say Yes, When to Say No, to Help Your Children Gain Control of Their Lives

The Entitlement Cure: Finding Success in Doing Hard Things the Right Way

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The Power of a Blessing (LMP 20)

The power of our words is absolutely necessary to us understanding our influence in the relationships around us.  In my year of becoming more intentional in my marriage, I have been thinking more about what it means to pay attention to the words that I speak over my marriage and family.  For some of you, the idea of a "Blessing" sounds like something from an old country church or maybe something that doesn't happen anymore.  What I want to tell you in today's podcast is that our words have an incredible impact in what the people around us think of us, of themselves, and their identity.  Today's episode is all about the month of November inviting us to be more grateful, especially as we are entering a season of family and often the tension it brings. 

Sit back, grab a cup of coffee, or maybe go for a run and let's talk more about the power of the words we use and the words said to us.

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My Life as a Military Kid (LMP 19)

If you have kids, you don't want to miss this episode.  

My kids have been begging to be a part of the Lifegiver Podcast, and I thought it would be a great idea to interview them on what it is honestly like to be a military kid.  Aidan is 12, and in his second year of middle school.  Jackson is 9, and in 4th grade.  We sat down for an unscripted interview where I encouraged them to be honest about their life and experiences, both the good and the bad.  They share some of their struggles and successes, so you will definitely want to let your kids listen.  This is a great one to listen to while in the car and then talk about it at the dinner table later.  Dinners together as a family have shown in research to be one of the biggest keys to a successful, connected family.  While at dinner, ask your kids what their thoughts were about the podcast, what they identified with, agreed wth, or disagreed with.  

Special thank you to Kelly Keseecker's son Carter for his courageous Shout Out and Janine Boldrin from, Chameleon Kids Magazine, for hers as well.  You can find out more about Chameleon Kids Magazine, the only magazine for military kids, by military kids, here.


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Sacred Spaces 05: New Vision and Questions Answered

It's another episode of Lifegiver and I am here to announce some really fun changes and new updates.  Some of you said you would love to have access to webinars and various forms of media, so today I am pleased to offer two versions of the podcast.  Today is all about the new vision of Lifegiver and it shouldn't be a surprise to most of you.  

Today I also tried doing a 10 minute Lifegiver LIVE broadcast over on my Facebook page.  I am considering doing something like this every Friday as a way to encourage you in 10 minutes to invest in your marraige and family- on what better day than Friday before the weekend starts?!  The audio was a little loud, I will work on that next time, but it was a great start!

After a wonderful time in Jackson Hole, WY with military and first responder spouses, I feel led to include our first responder spouses more.  So... take a listen to the new direction of Lifegiver!  

I also address some questions I have gotten from some of you that you wanted answers to.

You can listen like you always do right here on my website through streaming or through iTunes:

And you can also WATCH it on my Youtube Channel!  




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